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writes:I use to see to see this guy sometimes and you know he was the first guy that kissed me and all of that you know so I was really having feelings for him but we didn't use to see each other very often so one time we met after a long time we hadn't seen each other we were making out and it ended up being my first time and now i found out he's seeing someone else and i feel just awful so How do I get over him? and How do I act when I have to see him? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i just wanted to thank u for answerin my question and tell you that it really helped me and i apreciate your answers they were very encouragin for me. thanx a lot
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reader, Kinky Boots  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Just walk away with your head held high, you deserve better. I agree this really does suck, but that is life, so dust your self down and get back out there and meet someone who you so rightly deserve, not this piece of sh*t. We all have first times, and sometimes they are wonder, other times not, yours was lovely and you wanted to hang onto that, well, it is not going to be, so stop whittling about it. If i was you i would be polite in his company and if he tries to come onto you then tell him to get lost,dont go down to his gutter level. Never argue and shout and scream, just be calm, collect and a lady and move on. It isnt the end of the world. It happened to me and i survived.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): aw man. that sucks. but, you know, te same type of thing happened to me, and is still happening to me. you just cant let it affect you. this guy i was with, who was my first everything was busy doing oral when i wasnt around with a whore, and i was aware and still kept going back. you cant let him do things lilke that to you. theyre very manipulative. dont think about him. try to talk to other guys. maybe youll find one who you really do love and care about who wont be 2 timing you. dont make the same mistake i did. because im paying for it now. just put yourself out there. or better yet, stay with your close friends, mine helped me get through, and yours, if their good enough friends, will help you too. you dont need a guy in your life. they just suck. in my case, thats what girls just seem to do for him. =/
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