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writes: to whom it may concern,ok i have been in a relationship for awhile. Well my boyfriend started flirting with other girls (not cheating) i got tierd of it and always lost my temper because of past relationships. To make it short we have broke up now. He says he still loves me and wants to be with me. Yet he doesnt know! everyday we either are fighting or being nice.. usualy fighting. we were so perfect. what can i do to make him run back? please help me!
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reader, cinderellaNlove +, writes (11 May 2006):
cinderellaNlove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice.. and i know the reason why we broke up.. but i dunno if it was a good enough reason.. i mean this boy was soo perfect.. he always was good to me.. he flew me everywhere all over the world.. he treated me like a princess.. and then i found him flirting with girls (he never did it infront of me) and i ended it.. i guess because in my past relationships .. well they were horrible all together.. but yea i dont know what to do now and if it was a good reason to break up! and now he tells me he loves me but he doesnt know what to do or what he wants?!?!
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (10 May 2006):
 You need to remember the reason why the relationship went sour in the first place and try and remember what it felt like when he was flirting with other girls...you also need to be sure that it isn't gonna just be the same as it was before..
If you think that he will start flirting again then move on and forget about him because I gaurantee you will be back in this same situation in a few months! Although flirting is not cheating it is a sort of emotional betrayal, trust your own instincts...if something makes you feel bad or makes you hurt then there's something wrong...if he can't respect that then you don't want him to come back...
Talk to him if you can and tell him that you wanted to clear some things up...say to him that his flirting was a problem and it will never work if it doesn't stop...he shouldn't want to flirt with other girls! Ask him what he would think if you decided to flirt with other guys?!?!?! If you both equally want it to work then you both have ot make sacrafices to make eachother equally happy!
Simple flirting depending on how flirtatious he is doesn't have to be a problem once he comes back to you at the end of the day! Good luck
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