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*enjen0124
writes:so my husband of a year [we have been together a total of 5 years] cheated on my with a gril from his school. It went on for a about a month, he broke it off with her and is now back with me and our two year old daughter. i feel good about having him back and he really wants to work it out and get passed this, but can anyone help me with getting over the whole thing??? Reply to this Question
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reader, babybutton  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 You poor woman! What an idiot why would he throw your marrige away he slept with her and put you second my god u disurve better. As for having children with him not a biggy some men think thay have u trapped as it goes its not the case at all. You'll only turn bitter towards him xx
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reader, Thegirlwiththepurplescarf +, writes (19 July 2010):
Hey love :)
Thats great he is back and your feeling happy with your family around you. Maybe what you need is to feel that your his woman, the one he loves. You want to feel beautiful and you want him to want you. You may need to talk about it more, even though it maybe painfull. Once you know why he cheated it might help you both to work on it and move forward.You could also consider a marriage counselor. I hope this helps you.
The girl with the purple scarf. xx
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reader, hotcookie +, writes (19 July 2010):
 the only person who can help you is you babe, you need to ask yourself honestly if you can handle the small part of your brain telling you constantly not to trust him? if you can then good x
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reader, woowoo83 +, writes (19 July 2010):
 i know this sounds harsh, but if you let him get away with it he will most probably do it again. :(
i am not saying he definetly will, but he obviuosly didn't care about you enough to keep it his trousers the first time. if i was you, i'd be forever paranoid that he would do it again. i could understand if it was a drunken kiss, but for a whole month?? i think maybe the grass wasn't green enough for him with her, seems like he is back with you as your his security! he is insecure deep down, if he wasn't he would be on his own, and not using you!
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