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*abi-girl
writes:well, im 16 and my boyfriend is 19, basically we've been sleeping together for 4 months of our 7 month relationship and its been good. But lately he has come up to me and asked if he can go to watch dogging or go to a swinggers club. its hard for me as i feel used and not good enough even though he reassures me that its amazing sex. i just dont want him to go, but i dont wanna seem evil saying no to him going. any advice ??? Reply to this Question
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reader, babi-girl +, writes (28 May 2009):
babi-girl is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for everyones advice im still abit stuck though on what to do x
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reader, babi-girl +, writes (28 May 2009):
babi-girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits hard to walk away, weve been through so much, i told him today that i dont want him to go and think it would ruin us, hes now telling me that he was messing about, when i dont think he was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): how is this even a question?
and what was with that advice before?
it will be hard- and hard doesnt cover it- but seriously- DUMP HIM.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (28 May 2009):
 I may be wrong, but I think in Britain you only have to be 18 to get into clubs.
I could be wrong... don't know a lot about swingers clubs. In my opinion, swinging is just not right... I don't blame the poster for feeling uncomfortable. I think she should tell him how she's feeling. It's insulting to tell a woman that you want to have sex with someone else. It's called "intimacy" for a reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): Don't go against what you think is right, your values and morals for some boy. You aren't being evil telling him no, you are setting some boundaries and telling him what you stand for and what you want stand for.
Personally I think he sounds all wrong for you and I would run away from this loser.
He is the one who is being evil trying to convince you to do someting like this when you don't want to.
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