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He wants to move across the country and I'm so scared to lose him..how do I deal with this?

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Question - (14 December 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have been dating him for awhile and although it wasn't a surprise he wants to move all the way across the country. Im scared to lose him. He wants to leave soon. how do i deal?

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A female reader, honey_1625 +, writes (14 December 2005):

hi! if u really love that guy u will trust him with all your heart, and u will be willing to understand and wait for him to come back. i know its difficult but when u think that person that u loved u can not feel any pain in your heart yet u will feel lots of happiness and joy. if u believe in him and u totally trust your guy then theirs nothing to worry about. just listen to your heart and follows what your heart say's, if u will be happy with him then go for it, give him a chance and give your self a chance, to love each other. theirs a lot of way to communicate with each other even when your far for him, just give it a try.... i hope i help u in some ways. goodluck

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A female reader, Phyrekiss +, writes (14 December 2005):

Phyrekiss agony auntThe best way to figure out how to deal, would be to find out how he feels about you. Does he want you to go? Are you willing to go? If not, then you better start getting used to the fact that he wont be around. Its a hard thing to do, letting go of someone. Another alternative would be to try the long distance relationship, but only if you are both up to it, and totally committed. Good Luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2005):

i wouldn't leave without a better commitment! You are scared for a reason..listen to it and ask him to delay his move or go ahead without you. If he stays true you won't lose him then will you ? What have you got to lose ?Follow your own path.

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