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writes: i have this bf of mine who's inviting me this april to go with him in their hometown,he told me he wanted me to go with him on his fathers birthday. my question is: is he doing all this things coz he loves me and see me as his a good wife to be or what other reason it would be? will i go or not to? Reply to this Question
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (15 March 2007):
Why don't you just ask him why he wants to take you?
It could be alsorts of reasons - why guess at them?
examples - his parents might be pressuring him to show he has a girlfriend; his parents might be very annoying and your presence will dilute them; he might have an ex in the locality that he wants to show you off to; he might just want you to meet his parents; he might want to be with you and not apart from you. Alsorts of reason.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (15 March 2007):
Perhaps he cares about you and wants you do meet his dad, as his dad probly wants to see who his son is in a relationship with. If you dont want to go then just dont. Meeting your boyfriends parents when your a couple is just a normal thing a couple do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): If he's taking you to meet his father, then that is a positive sign that he cares about you a lot. Just go with him and enjoy meeting his Father and not try to overthink and analyze all his actions. Enjoy the gift of being with someone who likes you a lot, and just relax. Relationships develop over time and with each little step, they become more meaningful and they grow. Meeting his family is one of those steps towards a possible commitment and it shows he's respects and has deep feelings for you. Just go with the flow and enjoy hun. Take care.
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