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He wants a house here, I don't, what should I do?

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Question - (22 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

At the beging of the year, I started to see my ex boyfriend again and things are going great. But now he want's to buy a house and settle down. I really love him and care for him but I hate living in this town and so does he so I don't understand why he wants to stay here. We have been off and on for three years now and I wouldn't mind to see a ring on my finger and for him to ask me to live with him. I'm confused and When I try to talk to him he thinks I want to start a fight. My question is should I try and talk to him or should I just move on?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011):

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Thanks for the advice I'll try it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for the advice I'll try it.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (23 April 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntI think you should try and talk to him. You say you wouldnt mind a ring on your finger well that must show that you love him and if that is the case well then you should not give up without a fight as you will be left heartbroken and asking yourself what if.

Just keep it simple and ask him does he see himself settling in the town that you are both in. Maybe he doesnt like the place but it is his home town and maybe thats where he feels he wants to settle down. You need to get to know him better and see where his thoughts are coming from. Just ask him basis questions and tell him you are just interested in what he wants in the future.

Goodluck.

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