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writes: I fell for this guy because he was a heartless bastard, a complete badboy and a bit of a womanizer. I like a challenge! He also had something that drew me to him. We went out for a month, and throughout that time he said he loved me and i was naive enough to believe him, even though deep down I knew he was just a player. Nearly 5 months later we got back together. This time was different. He realised that I wasn't going to give up on him because I got to know him well enough to see past his hardcore exterior into the sweet and sensative guy beneath. He actually fell in love with me, which i think suprised him as much as it did me. We had an amazing 4 month relationship in which he was a completely different person. But shortly after we broke up about a month ago he said he didn't like who he'd become, and he went back to the guy he was this time last year. Now I'm faced with a problem. I'm still in love with him. But I love the guy he was when I was with him, and now he seems like a completely different person. Are we a lost cause? I love someone who pretty much no longer exists, and I hate the person he's become, except when he proves to me that it's still him. Is it worth trying again with him or should I just leave him to be who he is right now?
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reader, pica +, writes (3 November 2006):
Wow! all this falling in and out of love so fast. You know what I'm going to say .. forget him. Whatever his priorities are, you're not high on the list. Sorry.
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