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He told my uncle he wants sex with me?

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Question - (27 February 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2011)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

What are your views on men who want sex from you ?. I'd like to get different opinions on this. I met a guy tonight who my uncle knows. I was out with my uncle. He came over to say hello to my uncle , and obviously he saw me. When my uncle went to the bar later, he apparently told my uncle that he wants to have sex with me. This is something that i think he should have been telling me, and not my uncle of all people !. I'm not sure if he only wants sex though, and if that would be a one night stand or having sex more than once. I saw him looking at me quite a lot when he was sat down too, but he didnt come over again, and i didnt know how to approach him.Do you think it's a bad thing ?. I might see him again as i saw him in one of my local pubs.

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2011):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntYou're in your late twenties and need to ask this??? You must have led a really sheltered life.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (27 February 2011):

LazyGuy agony auntA guy tells the brother of your father he wants you for sex...

And you are asking if that is okay...

You don't see how wrong this is? Really just wtf?

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A female reader, TheFurFiles Canada +, writes (27 February 2011):

TheFurFiles agony auntAnyone who tells a relative of yours that he wants to have sex with you should be stroked off your list immediately. It's almost as creepy as Tom Cruise's Scientology video on Youtube.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (27 February 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntBefore I met my husband, I was into one night stands and FWBs with men. I mean a woman has to get her kicks too, sometimes it gets rather dusty done there. However, I would pick out and zone in on the men who responded to me with sexual chemistry but aren't too forward.

Now in your situation, I wouldn't have sex with someone who tells my relative he wants to do me. "Hey, I wanna bone your niece." Gross! Not to mention slightly disrespectful to your uncle.

But that's up to you; it also depends on the last time you had an sex.

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (27 February 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntOk As an adult I know how men talk to each other when no women are around. But this is cheap disgusting behavior.

I mean this guy walked up to an older man who was obviously with you and just announced to him that he wanted to have sex with you? WTF?

What if it had been your dad and not your uncle? Would you still be asking if it was OK?

And besides all that, he has already made it clear that he is not looking to start a relationship with you. He just wants to have sex with you. Otherwise he would have at least bought you a drink and tried to talk with you and maybe gotten to know you a little like a normal man.

I know woman are making it easier for men these days to have guilt free sex but I would be highly insulted by this guys presumtion. He is lucky your uncle didn't punch him in the nose. He'd be the last man I'd ever go out with.

I really hope your not seriously considering it. He sounds like a real creep that could turn stalker in a heartbeat.

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