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writes:hi i need help ive been with my partner 25 years not a brilliant 25 years but even so i do love him he has in the last two years seen 3 prositutes i was totally gutted, never felt so sick in my life just could not imagine he would ever do that, he told me because he couldnt handle the guilt, i still dont understand why he went we had a very good sex life, this is the bit i dont understand i used to fantaise him with another women while we were making love it really turned me on... anyway just 7 weeks after him telling me about the prositutes i ask him things about what he did with them and it turns me on!!!!! what is wrong with me
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (13 October 2007):
 Nothing at all wrong with you. This is simply an example of unconscious sex drives that I believe everyone has. You don't know they are there until something brings them to the surface. Has it helped you cope with what your husband did ? If so maybe exploring it a little more may bring you closer together - try role play. Or maybe visit a lap dancing club together. Put your mind at rest though - nothing at all is wrong with you.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (13 October 2007):
The details of sex turn many people on. For this you are normal. The question is has he quit and unlikely to repeat his cheating? Also, can you forgive him for what he has don. Make your decision and move on.
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reader, rcn +, writes (13 October 2007):
 There is nothing wrong with you, it's just part of the fantasy. I really wouldn't worry about it.
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