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female
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13-15,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriends constantly telling me how much he loves me, cuddling and kissing me. i thought everything was perfect until he told me he "cheated" on me last night.It was pretty basic as he told me online even though i see him most nights and i have no idea whether he was telling the truth or not as he wnt offline literally 5minutes later.Is there such thing as a 7sum?or is he just taking the mik?he enjoys winding me up sometimes but never about anything like this.i don't want to take it too seriously, but i don't want to let him walk all over me as i can be a bit of a pushover sometimes.he's cheated on a couple of his previous girlfriends in the past, but he swore he'd never do anything like that to me.do i end things with him, or wait until he explains himself propperly?any advice?please?
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reader, Helpful Stranger + ♥, writes (15 May 2008):
 I can tell that you're feeling confused about the whole situation, so text him, or leave him an instant message, asking him if what he said last night is true, or whether he is only pulling your leg, like you are hoping. Remember that you don't have to be embaressed about confronting him, after what he said last night made him look like a fool.
If he's telling the truth, and he did actually cheat on someone, then talk things through with him. You should ask him why he did it, so you know whether you are doing something wrong in the relationship. If he comes up with any old excuse, then you should consider breaking-up with him, but only if it feels like the right thing to do.
Remember that most boys our age do stupid things to impress their friends, so don't take anything personally, because he probably hates himself for whatever he did do, (if anything) anyway.
Good luck, and I hope that you two can work things out :)
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reader, Emivia  + ♥, writes (15 May 2008):
 I doupt someone around your group age would have a "7sum", as he calls it.
It doesn't sound like his character so maybe it was a friend of his who wrote that.
Wait until you see him and talk to him about it. If it was him them express how horrible it was to hear that. You should seriously consider breaking up with it if it was him who said that. If there is any truth behind it then you should definatly break up with him.
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