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writes: Me and my bf's 6 month anniversery was a lil less then a week ago...on our ann. I guess he was with his friends trying to find ways to break up with me and he was texting this chick. The next day everything was back to normal and that nite I found out he'd been texting this girl...a lot. I asked him about it and he said he had to go cuz he was supposed to meet up with his friends. I said I was upset and needed to talk. He said bros before hoes. We broke up the next day and the got back together that same day.Should we really just go on a break..or what??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): You are both at a cross road in your relationship. At six months to a year, couples decide wether they will stay togeather and move into a more serious relatioship or they break up. What you do in the first six months is very diffrent from what you do aa year or two into the relationship. In my opinion he needs a wake up call! What ever you tolerate now he will continue to do into the relationship. I would give him the benifit of the doubt in that it takes at least six months to end previous relationships when entering a commitment with one partner. However if he is saying he does not want to be in this relationship than you need to let him go with out any indication that you care. Men like to chase. If he feels too comfortable he will become bored. If you try to hold onto him he will run. Play it cool but be very clear about what you will not tolerate! Texting a girl is inappropiate in a relationship. If he wants out he needs to leave. Don't beg him to stay because he will resent you and run. Instead focus your attention else where and give him the idea that you too want the realtion ship to end as your are attractive to others too! You'll have him begging you to stay! Goodluck.
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reader, pica +, writes (24 August 2006):
Guys who need to put their friends before their partner aren't worth much in my mind. You're not a priority in his life, why should he be in yours? Leave him to his gang.
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reader, zosey +, writes (24 August 2006):
 hey, we will probably never undertsnad males but this dosnt sound like normal talk to ur girlfriend, he sounds like hes tryin to make u want him so much so he ses jump u say how high, i probably like ppl wantin him, it dosnt sound like ur v happy with him and i no i woudlnt be, i dont think he deserve to have a nice girl like u at thwe moment and i thinnk u should have some time out so he can understand tht ur not a dog and wont say how high. take care and good luck with this. zoe
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reader, Ferooza +, writes (23 August 2006):
yes you should! firstly any guy who refers to you as a hoe does not deserve to even be in the same room as you! you need to realise that respect is a big issue which a lot of people dismiss! if he does not respect you he does not care about you. therefore does not love you. get rid of him! there are plenty of nice guys out there you just have to look in the right place!
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Hi steph06,
It depends on what you want and how u want to be treated. Even if i tell u to end things i am not sure u will but i hope so. Dear, he doesnt respect or deserve you at all.You deserve to be treated alot better than that and shouldnt take such treatment from anybody. He isnt worth it at all.I think u know already unless you wouldnt have posted this question here with so much doubt as i indicated from your posting. You dont need him anyway, go out and get yourself a real man who would treat you right. Dont waste your time on this guy.
Goodluck.
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