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writes: I've been with my guy for 2 years now, and the relationship has just turned long distance, he says he loves me and he still finds me attractive. We have absolutely no problem in the physical department as the spark is still totally there. It's just that he feels the spark has gone elsewhere. He loves me he just says he's lazy and he's really busy at the moment, he doesn't know if he can deal with the committment or pressure. I have suggested cooling it off which I would want to do for both of us and seeing each other less/talking to each other less, so when we do it will be much better. We are perfect and I know it can work, we are so close and know each other so well, He seems scared by commitment and the fact that it's been 2 years. Any suggestions on what i can do? How we can get that spark!! I hope we have a chance!! Help!!!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (16 November 2005):
 Unfortunately, when a relationship becomes long distance so can the closeness fealt by those involved. For him, the pressure of staying committed to someone he can't have all the time may be a big problem. If I were you, I would accept that a monagomase relationship will probably not be possible in the long term. I would cut my losses and move on, thats not to say that when you are able to be in the same town you do not see each other, provided you are not committed to someone else, but expecting each other to remain faithful without being able to meet each others need is unfair to both of you.
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