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writes:ok there is guy that i think i like we have a lot of weird chemistry he calls me a "plain pizza" behind my back and even sometimes to my face implementing that im boring i guess or if anyone has any other ideas what that means?? should i still like him or let go? everyone says he only does that because he likes me and i wouldnt do anything with him but i have thought about him now im just confused as to whether i should like him or not? what is he thinking? Reply to this Question |
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (3 November 2009):
 Mea culpa. I read 'plain pizza' as 'pizza pizza' and naturally I was puzzled. Sorry about that.
Among friends 'boring' can also be used jokingly to describe someone who is responsible.
Not having much background, how he says it, how often and how you get on with him otherwise, it's hard to say. 'Weird chemistry' doesn't really tell us anything.
Next time he says it, why not just ask what he means by it?
Hold off on nurturing any romantic feelinsg until you can size him and his intentions up with that answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009): i know its jus that ive known him for a long time and its only recently he started sayin that... idk if its because i rejected him or what..
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reader, 2479  +, writes (3 November 2009):
It does sound quite rude but maybe he thinks he's being funny - I think you should ask him what he means by saying that. If the answer is hurtful just walk away and forget him - you definitly deserve someone better and be assured there is someone out there who'll think you're lovely.
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reader, CaringGuy + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
I've never once in my life suggested that a girl I fancied was boring, because the reason I've fancied them is that they're not boring at all. If he's suggesting your boring, let him go. You deserve better .
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): do i let it go cause its ok to like him? and i get boring from the word plain.. it is a nickname but i still take offense to it... shouldnt i?
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reader, quiet-echo + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
Without having any context in which to place 'pizza pizza' I can't give you any insight, I'm afraid. It sounds like a friendly joke, but where you get 'boring' from I don't know.
Ask him what he means by the joke, without asking his feelings. It's far too soon for that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Let it go..
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