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female
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51-59,
*oonsun
writes:i've ben with this guy for going on two years,the last few weeks ive noticed him being very obsessed with spending more time together; then i was playing around and found some girl's number, he totally lied and said it was his mom's friend, i looked at the calls and saw that he had called her. anyway he said she was an old friend and was having drug and alcohol problems and he was trying to help her. i was mad because he hid it from me if they were just friends he could have told me. i called the girl and she said that he said we were broken up and everytime he asked her to hang out he'd tell her he had to talk to me and push her away. she told me they did kiss. please some one tell me what the hell is he thinking after he wanted to marry me help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): I would sit him down and have a good long chat with him and ask him just what he is playing at. Because it seems to me like he is enjoying playing a game here. If he has been seeing someone then i would kick him to the kerb so hard he would land on the moon!!! He has suggested marriage, well he can forget that, you dont need this kind of crap in your life. Have that chat and decide what you are going to do from there, but i know what my answer would be. GET RID!!!
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reader, whiteshadow  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 you need the put you foot down and stop this now!!! if he cares about you and your feelings enough he wont be seeing this women. If he can lie about the phone and person who it is then he is msot probably lieing about her having problems wich is just another excuse for him to go see her. I suggest you ither talk to him about it or tell him to go and get rid of this lier! shake him up, tell him he is hruting your feelings by doing this. if he makes another excuse up...you know whats happening. Dont take it!! dont be the one to say oh ok its alright and suffer in silence!!!! please dont let him walk over you!
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