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writes:I'm a curious male that wants to have sex with a man but I'm scared even if a condom is used I will still get an std or HIV. Is this a normal feeling to have? I met this guy and I'm really turned on by him, but I'm sure scared of taking the next step with sex.
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reader, lboy  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 dear reader,
i think your thinking this over just a little too much the answer is very simple, first get tested you and any partner you may have in the future b4 going into sex, then still wear the condom and if you are that unsure then u can always ask him to pull out b4 he ejacultes, otherwise just stay calm get tested and enjoy your time with this man.
good luck
lboy
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): A condom is the most protected you are going to get im afraid.
It is completely normal to worry - and a good sign that you do. The best way to make sure that you are both clear before you go ahead is to get STI tested, this is a common occurance amongst gay people as most are quite premiscuous. My advice would be to be tested each time you have a new partner, then if the condom were to split, you would know you were still safe.
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 condoms are the best way to prevent such things. first things first, go get checked, and ask the potential partner to be checked. This will set your mind at ease.Just take it easy, unless the condom tears (which is very tricky to do) you will be fine.Good luck!
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