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writes: hi i like this guy a loooot....i met him with my friends at a club...he made the move actually ...then he invited us over to his place...i didnt show much interest then ....now i want him badlyhe is a very busy guy ....really really busy ...is that the reason why he is not responding to my smses and callsdo u think i have a chance with him....i am so very depressedshould i wait for him to call me
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2005): Check out the book "he's just not that into you" - it will change your whole perspective on things on situations like this.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 December 2005):
 If he were interested, he'd call. Get busy with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2005): No, don't wait for him to call. His behaviours may be an indicator he has other interests or he's playing a "waiting" game with you. If he's doing either, then he's a poor choice. You want an honest man who wants to nuture and build a dating relationship with you. Don't put all your eggs in one basket here. You need to discern whether this particular person would be the best person for a future relationship. If he's too busy to put time and efforts in, I would suggest you move on and find others who may interest you. You made contact..but don't over do it. That could make you look desperate and that is a turn off. Leave him alone-the ball's in his court, let him reply. If he doesn't reply, then that answers your question. He's simply not interested. Good luck
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (16 December 2005):
 I ddon't think I would spend my nights sitting at home waiting for the phone to ring. In my opinion if a guy really likes you he will make time to give you a call. No matter how busy you are you always have atleast a couple of minutes a day that you are not doing anything, whether it be on your way to lunch or just before bed. If I were you I would get out there and try to meet someone else, if he ends up being interested he will find the time to let you know, but would you really want to be involved with someone that would have no time for you? Good luck.
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