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anonymous
writes:So i went out on one date with Mr A. It was pretty nice...:)Actually he and i go a long way back; we were in the same school back when we were kids and now we are both working in the same city. The date was nice...but there was no spark. He was very nice though...he even dropped me back home and walked me all the way to my door step.There was no good night kiss though...After this, he asked me when i'd be free again so that we could meet again.the thing is...he's currently unemployed (between jobs) and most of the time when i try calling him; he never picks up!Once he picked up - and he said we should meet.So i called him up day before y'day to tell him i was free but he didn't pick up.And then...i sent him a text...which he did not reply to.Now i have two main questions.I've been offered a job in a new city and i'll be moving in two weeks...how do i get to meet him if he stays like this...i really want to say good bye!!Secondly, he seems so unenthusiastic...should i just not meet him...because i DID try...but he never picks up...so should i just suppress my feelings and move on? AS it is, the rel'ship has no scope. It would have been nice to say bye though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i called him up. No response.
I guess it is time to move on...i wasn't expecting anything magical...i just wanted to meet him one last time.
Thanks, anyway :)
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reader, Inallhonesty...  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Well if he's not answering your text messages or answering your phone calls, how can you help it if you don't get the chance to say goodbye to him? I wouldn't stress too much about it. I mean, if you were to get in touch with him to say goodbye, are you expecting the type of sparks that you see in the movies? The ones that will get you to stay? It's his loss hun. The most you can do now before you leave is to try calling him again...if he answers then great, ask if he'd like to meet for dinner one last time. If he doesn't, leave a message telling him that you're leaving. YES, it seems impersonal but like you said, it's not like you didn't try. You'll know deep down when it's time to give up and move on.Maybe there's still hope that he'll come around. And if this city that you're moving to isn't too far of a commute, you can still keep in touch. Hope it all works out for you...
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