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*yameSohma
writes:I am nearly 16 and have never had a boyfriend before.I have had some bad past experiences with rejection and I remember being asked out in primary school, I was kinda chubby then and I was so surprised someone wanted me, it turns out he just did it for a joke, and left me humiliated, I slimmed down a lot and got taller (size 10, 5'6) and although it may seem insignificant what he did really marked my self esteem.There is a guy at school, he started last year so he's kind of new, who I really like. My best friend knows him and added his msn for me (without telling me) and another friend hinted that she knew someone who liked him. He added me on myspace and we have had really long convos until 3am in some cases and he's so easy to talk to, like one of my close friends. My friend kept hinting and he put two and two together and subtly asked if I liked him, I said that to be honest I did and now I felt awkward, he asked if I would feel less awkward if he asked me out, I was surprised and he said he was serious he then went what about if I stop with the what ifs? Will you go out with me? He told me I'm an amazing person and I said yes.He has been hurt in the past too, and because of my low self esteem I'm wondering if he really likes me or just asking me out because he feels sorry for me? He was quite sweet about it, apparently he's been talking about me all day and says I'm amazing but I feel kind of awkward as he is my first and I'm so inexperienced.I'm really confused, help would be appreciated.
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reader, AyameSohma +, writes (31 March 2009):
AyameSohma is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks Johndoe254 that actually really helped, he asked me on a date today and gave me a hug! =D
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reader, Johndoe254  +, writes (31 March 2009):
Hey like give him a chance ya know it sounds like he likes you I'm in a long distance and my girl is my first I am def on the heavy side and my girls a cute little fox I talk about her all the time she's always on my thoughts and I'm alaways saying she's amazing because she is too me and I'm geussing your his world too and listen to this ok this is my life motto I made up "life is a card game with no cards play it" so have fun enjoy ur time together and don't sweat it just give him a shot you
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): Girl I really don't know why your stressing!
He really likes you, go with the flow and have fun. You will soon feel secure enough and not so self-conscious.
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