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He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.

Q.   My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was ...

A.   31 March 2009: He was probably with her awhile and it's almost like when I'm trying to have a good way to put it like when you have good memories with someone you cherish he's probably not over her death that's all don't make him get rid of it just like don't ... (read in full...)

How do I get her to respect my feelings more?

Q.   My girlfriend takes me for granted. And it's pretty much my fault. I have tried so hard to let her know how much I love her and I have stuck around when she has made some big mistakes. Now she knows that I won't leave. I mean, some day if things ...

A.   31 March 2009: Hey I don't know the awnser but I've been thinking what I'm doing wrong and I think you and I may have the same story she knows I can't get mad at her I wanna thank you man cuz this opened my eyes but maybe there's a way to do this ummm I'm gunna ... (read in full...)

He says I'm amazing but I feel kind of awkward as he is my first and I'm so inexperienced.

Q.   I am nearly 16 and have never had a boyfriend before. I have had some bad past experiences with rejection and I remember being asked out in primary school, I was kinda chubby then and I was so surprised someone wanted me, it turns out he just did...

A.   31 March 2009: Hey like give him a chance ya know it sounds like he likes you I'm in a long distance and my girl is my first I am def on the heavy side and my girls a cute little fox I talk about her all the time she's always on my thoughts and I'm alaways saying ... (read in full...)

I found porn, and there is no intimacy in our relationship!

Q.   Ive been in a relationship for 3 years and recently realised that there is no intimacy. sex is great there is no problem there he doesnt like kissing and never tells me that he loves me. Recently i found porn and it was hidden. Do men look at porn ...

A.   30 March 2009: Hahaha just about every gut has porn or has owned it but like he could need some attention who knows ya know but I couldn't imagine not telling my girl that I love her and looking at that shit even though I won't get to see her for 8 months but if ... (read in full...)

How can I convince my long distance gf that we should feel anchored down because we've never met?

Q.   First off, Both of the people mentioned in this are 14, just for a little clarification. I met this girl over the internet. We've know each other for about a year now. We live quite a distance from each other. Far enough at least ...

A.   30 March 2009: Honestly that's rough im in the same situation bro I told her we should just be friends until I get down there I'm 17 she's 15 but my girl is almost exactly like me but she makes me happy but one day oh I met this girl on xbox live by the way but ... (read in full...)

I really just want him to grow up and behave like an adult instead of a child running away and sulking and hiding.

Q.   When my boyfriend gets angry over something I did he does not show his anger he internalizes it. A few days after he makes more out of it and says he needs space to get over it. He makes mountains out of molehills. His friends all say he is a great ...

A.   25 March 2009: I understand what's going on a good bit he's probably talking about things with his friends b/c they will try and help stick by him I know what he's doing I did the same shit it's not really childish it's just his way of dealing with problems stick ... (read in full...)

Does she just want to teach me a lesson? Help me out here!

Q.   I've got a long distance relationship with a girl. She has problems and is stressed so I asked if we could just be friends until I got stuff together to come down and be with her. But I made it clear that I wasn't going to cheat on her and she told ...

A.   18 March 2009: Just found something out she is now hitting on one of my buddies that I know in real life ... (read in full...)

Its not intentional but I'm doing sexual things to my girlfriend while I'm asleep and its upsetting her!

Q.   Okay this is really embarrassing but i have no idea where to go. I have a girlfriend, we have been going out for 1 year 4 months. Everything has been great. Had a probblem couple of months ago but since then everything has been sorted. So a...

A.   17 March 2009: Wow that's rough I'd tell her and explain it and if you gotta masturbate before you sleep it's what you gotta do I geuss this has to be a hard thing for you and ur lady I never heard of such a thing but I just learned a new thing today but just talk ... (read in full...)

A gay guy hitting on a lesbian??? Really?

Q.   I have a big problem. I'm gay for one. My best friend is a boy (J). Well, I thought he was gay as well. I mean, he told me he was bi when we first met. But I just assumed that he was gay because he never stopped talking about this one boy. Well... ...

A.   17 March 2009: Just tell him that he you don't swing that way... (read in full...)

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