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benlyn
writes: I love my boyfriend very much. we live in neighbouring countries. we have been dating for 4 months now. I have made some mistakes while with him and we have talked about it and we decided to move on.The problem now is everytime we are chatting he has to always bring up a topic in regard to the mistakes i made, claiming that he is not good for me.He says he wants to love me but does not know how to do it coz am too complicated. I love him very much and now that he does not trust me, i want to win that trust back.He also thinks i am too childish for him since i am 2 years younger than him. The only problem is. I am finding it hard to grant him his wishes of breaking up with me. i cant stop thinking bout it and it is stressing me alot. HELP.
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reader, jessi +, writes (14 September 2006):
If you loved him so much you would let him go and move on all he is going to ever do is keep putting you down with all these sarcy comments etc but that is the point of relationships you have to make mistakes so you can learn from them and if you ask me he sounds complicated 1st he is saying your complicated then its your to young and then its how much mistakes you make thats not fair hes the one with the issues not you move on x x x
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 maybe talking to him and asking him how you are childish and everything else he says you are that way youll know exactly what your doing wrong then you may be able to change that. but maybe his other ralationships have been different and his never been with any body like you are, so in time he might learn to love you for you! hell get use to your ways! and also on the trust part the only way to make anybody trust you is honesty as well as staying faithfull adventually hell realise he can trust you!
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