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writes:Hi, i have been with my boyfrind for almost 4 years now, we just moved in together, in to our own apartment. He says he loves me, and he shows me i am everything, but i know he still talks to other girls, and that he is a very big flirt.Does this mean he doesn't love me, or that he is not ready? He doesn't really go out, he always comes home, or when i call him he always answers or at least most of the time, but i have seen messages to girls on his phones. Is it me that's trippin' or is it that he doesn't care?I hope someone can help me.
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reader, ladyiverson1189 +, writes (15 April 2008):
I could relate with you and I think the advice she gave was percise. I go through the same thing. And, it's never a loss of love, it's just a guy. However, it does tend to get annoying. Perhaps, not snooping and just trusting will do you some justice. That's what I had to learn to do.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Some guys are overly flirtatious and have a lot of girl friends. Some girls are the same way. I wouldn't say he doesn't care, not that I know him, just going from what you are saying. Sounds like an insecurity issue with you. If it helps, I do know one guy who flirted like crazy. I would've never guessed he had a girlfriend from how he talked. Eventually he did get to talking about her and how much he loved her. He said he just really enjoys flirting but has never/will never cheat on her. It's just innocent fun in his opinion. This may be like your guy, it may not. But by you not believing him when he says he loves you is an insecurity problem. This guy obviously loves you! He tells you that and shows you you are his everything. And as far as you said there are no signs he is cheating. Just trust that he loves you and would never go farther than harmless flirting. Know you are special enough that he wouldn't need to be with another girl. Good luck.
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