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writes:I am 35 and have been single for about 2 years. I recently met a guy at a friends birthday party. He has initiated seeing me every day for the last 3 weeks. He sends me text messages when we're not together telling me he can't wait to see me. Yet yesterday I was helping one of my girlfriends post a profile on a dating site and his picture popped up as one of her matches. She tells me he was online 3 times yesterday and once tonight. I don't know what to do. I do really like him and thought we had a connection. Do I wait it out or ask where we are headed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): I have been on dating sites and whilst dating people I would pop on there, not just to try to get another date but because some people on there had just become friends and I would be updating them on my dates.
Dont worry too much about it.
Ovbiously if you become exclusive then you have a right to speak up.
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reader, puffyfluffy +, writes (7 February 2010):
ummm hes probably not takeing you seriously like your takeing im, and maybe had that dateing site for a while and doesnt want to delete it just yet until you and him are serious.. it all depends on how he feels. i would get mad to, but thers nothing wrong with that. he could do what he wants. unless you guys were dateing for 6 months to a year.but besides that.. its ok, dont panic.
because if you do ask him about it, he will thnk you are crazy,obseesed or too clingy. be cool. its no biggy. he not obligated to you just yet. hes probly still just casually dateing.
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