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writes:So I have been talking and hanging out with this guy I met at work for about 4 months now. He is always telling me how much he likes me will wait however long it takes for me to trust him. He used to be quiet the ladies man and has slept with a lot of women. I don't know anything about this guys past and I feel like everythings a lie! When he is with me he won't answer any calls or texts so when he doesn't respond when I text him or call him I think he's with another girl doing the same thing he does when he's with me. When I call he never answers I get a call back in like 5 to 20 min. Same with texts. Is he seeing or talkin to someone else and feeding me a bunch of lines? Do I trust this guy? He tells me that he has changed but he is still always flirting with girls at work and he says he doesn't mean to he just has a flirty personality! What should I do! I wish I could just catch him in a lie aso I know! Help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): "He used to be quiet the ladies man and has slept with a lot of women."
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"when I text him or call him I think he's with another girl doing the same thing he does when he's with me"
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"He tells me that he has changed but he is still always flirting with girls at work and he says he doesn't mean to he just has a flirty personality!"
RED FLAG
Drop this guy, seriously. If a guy has a reputation it isn't for no reason. He told yoy he's changed yet he still firts with all these women, doesn't reply to texts or calls. He's obviously lying and actions speak louder then words, at the end of the day. I suggest you drop him now before you get hurt. Guys like him rarely change and this one sure hasn't.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 you don't trust him and maybe your suspicions are well founded. when you hear alarm bells in your head trust your instincts!
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