He says he doesn't know if we can be more than FWB!

A female age 36-40, *manda 01 writes:

For about a few weeks now, ive had sexual relations with a guy i work with. He is the most attractive guy ive ever been with, and has a beautiful personality. Im completely taken by him, i love his smile, his eyes, his hugs, etc...i wake up excited to go to work if i know hell be there. Since outta the blue, he gave me his number, ive assumed all along he was interested in me before i ever told him how i felt, ive thought we were on the same page. I catch him watching me walk, and he openly admits to it when i question him...so, i ask him if there was a chance wed ever be anything more than friends with benefits, and all he said was he couldnt predict the future. He doesnt say sweet things like "your beautiful", but he keeps direct eye contact when he talks to me..how should i deal with this? Im so afraid ill fall in love with him and he wont share those feelings and ill get hurt! Is there actually a way to tell if he has feelings for me?

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