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writes:I've known this guy for about four or five years. He's been my best friend. Since the first night I met him I've had feelings for him but he made it clear he did not want a girlfriend so I moved on and met someone else. After 2 years of dating, our relationship got really unhealthy so I called it quits. My best friend saw everything but was glad to have me back into his life. He flirts, calls me beautiful, and even gets mad when I say I want my ex back. He even calls my momma Mom and loves spending time with my family. I slipped up after some drinks and had sex with him a few times. I've even stayed the night snuggling completely sober watching movies quite a bit and he says maybe he can see himself having a girlfriend now. I'm confused. Does it sound like he likes me? Or does it sound like he's playing mind games?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): You've been best friends with him for so long,
This is a question you could also ask yourself;
Has he played mind games with other people? Did he act like this with previous lovers?
Clearly you're his best friend & I doubt he'd ever want to hurt you, so maybe he does have feelings for you & is ready to give it a try
The signs really point out to be that way
However if he says he doesn't then he wouldn't be a friend to you to lead you on
I hope this has helped
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011): I would say it sounds like he likes you. If he is playing games, then he's a real jerk! But he doesn't sound like a jerk, so I am guessing he likes you.
The only way to know is to tell him how you feel and see what he says. I personally don't think that guys "snuggle" unless they are interested. Sex, maybe, but not the snuggle and watch movies. That's a b/f behavior.
I would say go for it. Better than not knowing.
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reader, cheers  +, writes (12 September 2011):
 Yes. He's now happy having you as a girlfriend.He already gave you a HINT. Do you get it?
Please take few steps forward. Don't lose this chance. Call him as "Boyfriend", involve him in family outings/activities/thanks givings/christmas, etc. Espress that you appreciate his caring and his company all these time and want to move futher to deeper promising future together
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