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writes: Hi!My ex bf insisted on being friends. I agreed but when I called last night he was rather mean and told me to let him live peacefully. I wasn't angry, not sad. Disappointed in myself for letting him treat me this way again. Where does he get off saying stuff like that when he is the one who cheated and treated me so shabbily. Reply to this Question
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reader, ThatTexasChick  +, writes (22 February 2008):
Two words - MOVE ON!!!!
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Sounds to me like he was a complete jerk and trying to make him self feel better by saying you can be friends, when really he wanted to hurt you again and make you feel bad by once again hurting you by breaking his friendship, you dont need him he sounds like a right loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): I agree he must have felt guilty at first amd used you to make him self feel better.
You are correct to asking yourself where he gets off saying stuff like that when he is the one who cheated and treated you so shabbily.
Dont waste any more time on him. You will propbally never figure it out. Give him what he wants (a lot of space). If he later initiates contact, you can decide whether you would want to be friends with someone so indecisive and selfish! I wouldnt bother with any more chances. There are much better friends out there!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hi
Sounds like maybe he was easing his concience by suggesting staying mates, but doesnt really want that?
If you are trying to txt him and call like you did when you were together, its not really moving on.
Its rare you can be mates with someone you have just split with. Usually takes a little time with no contact before thats possible.
C xxxxx
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