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writes:Ok well here goes had a huge fight with my BF of 6 months this weekend after a night out, I ended up leaving his house at 5am in the morning and going home in a rage, i call sunday and he wont answer my calls or the texts, we usually speak all the time so i left it thinking he will call me mon night, as he away in the week at the min, but he doesn't so i drop him an e-mail saying sorry i left,please get in touch etc etc but i was hurt and angry, he replied back saying he will contact me soon, he needs to think, he's was upset to find i'd gone sunday. and to just give him time to think xxthis was mon night have still not heard off him, i'd also like to point out we are both in late 30's so please what does every one think have i lost him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk well better late than never, we broke up few days after this, but have to say was the best thing in the end in hindsight.. met a few great guys since!! still hunting for the right one but not one to give up :-)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 September 2009):
Well make sure you don't sit there waiting for a call. Go out and socialize with your friends and maybe take up a new hobby. That'll at least keep you busy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all who have posted so far i guess it's the waiting for his call that is killing me, its making me feel sick to my stomach.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): Hi, I'm sure you haven't lost him. Just give him the time he needs and take some time your self to think about things. Go out with your mates and have a laugh. He'll call you before you know it. Men are like that, they hate being crowded. Either he is feeling a bit trapped, especially after the row, or he is punishing you for going off. I bet if you take your mind off it for a bit then he'll call when you least expect. Give him some time to miss you, because if what you have togetehr is good I'm sure he will miss you and if not then maybe he is not right for you!- good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): It's difficult to say, but I wouldn't lose hope just yet! The fact that he replied to you at all is a good sign in my opinion. I would advise just giving him a bit more time. I know this must be extremely difficult and worrying, but if he asked for some space to think, then I think the best thing you can do is give him that.
I know that if I get upset with someone, I sometimes need some time away from that person, to think and calm down. After a while, things are okay again. So that could be all that this is. But if the time goes on and there is still no word from him, then I think you are entitled to contact him again and ask what is going on. But for now, it may be best to try and be patient. Keep yourself occupied if possible, to try and keep your mind off this a little. He knows you are sorry about what happened, so he now just needs time. I hope it all works out okay. x
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