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writes:I have had this man on my mind for 15 years we met briefly back then and i was obsessed with him. he had just met someone else who he went to have a daughter with and he adores her. I wrote him a letter asking him to phone me when my marriage broke up. He got in touch saying he had not been able to get me out of his head on and off for 15 years. I always thought of him constantly even through i was married to someone else. We finaaly got together 7 weeks ago and had a great time. he constantly texted me telling me how much he loved me. However, a last week i was ill with a chest infection and texted him at work saying i wished he was with me and not at work i said 'damn your job'. since then he has finshed the relationship saying he just wants to be friends, that i texted him in the beginning but he never stated that he loves me, just the opposite saying he wished to be friends. I cant understand how someone states he is head over heels with me 4 weeks ago go to not phoning or texting me anymore. I still love him and always will he has been in my head for 15 years. However, the fantasy for him seems to be better than the reality. he is 7 years younger than me but seemed to love me very much why has he changed his mind so quickly?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 You answered your own question - the reality wasn't as good as the fantasy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): well...maybe he sensed that you were obsessed with him and got scared? When someone comes on that strong, it can be a huge turn off.on the flip side, he could have simply changed his mind.
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