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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm not sure if my bf is making all this up so that I'm a secret to his family, I told him I'm upset because my family knows we're dating and they are accepting him so I wanted his family or at least parents to know that I exist even if he told me I will meet them around thanks giving.he told me that he told his mom about me and that she wasn't too happy about the idea and always wanted him to date Korean girls. He is at a family gathering right now for his grandmas birthday and he didn't want them to know that he is dating and plus that I'm Chinese....What should I do I feel its unfair that he has to hide me and it doesn't make too much of a difference if we dated longer as he said that then later during thanks giving I'm going to meet his family..I am giving him the time til then but it doesn't change my race let alone would it change the way his parents or family think of me no matter if we've been dating a few months longer or not? I just hope that he really follows through on what he said....I'm upset and I definitely don't want to be fooled, love is blind...and I think I really need some help on different perspectives or opinions about this... Reply to this Question
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