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writes:Hi guysI am very sad and hurting right now because My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he told me he hasn’t felt love for me the same way as before in a long time. We were constantly arguing almost everyday. He used to say he loved me but I think he doesn't love me anymore. He siad he just wanna be my friend but I don't really think I can do that. I really want him back. I had no idea what was going on inside his head. Please help.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (11 March 2012):
 Do you have any problem with saying to him: "you're right.... we don't have much in-common... you go your way and I'll go my way, and may we never encounter one-another again..."????
THAT's the REAL "answer" to your question....
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): I agree, don't be his friend, you need to move on. If you were arguing all the time this isn't a good relationship. If someone wants to go it's best to let them go unless you think they are suffering from a mental disorder and not behaving normally- even then it is best to take care of yourself first. If you're going to get back together that may happen later at some point but you need to let it rest for now and worry about yourself. Analyze the relationship and see if he is really someone you want to be with long term. I hope you feel better.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 March 2012):
 Real love does not begin at the first date, it begins when the infatuation period or the honeymoon period ends and you still decide to commit to each other. One thing you find out is whether you were arguing because you felt unloved, or were you arguing over stupid things, over personality clashes. No one enjoys arguing I would say it is some needs that are not being met. If a guy feels it is too much effort to maintain a relationship after the honeymnoon period, it can mean that he is not the right guy for that type of relationship you are looking for, and you should not want that person back. Also if it is hard for you to know what he is thinking, it could mean he wants to keep a distance and does not want to share every intimate detail of his life. Don't be his friend. Focus on yourself and maybe you will realize he is not the perfect man you thought he was.
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reader, dimplez77  +, writes (11 March 2012):
Hey girl ive been in your situation before and it hurts like hell! he probably loves u as a person but has fallen out of love with you. unfortunately its going to take time to get over him and you going to miss him dearly but there is light at the end of the tunnel i assure you that you will find someone out there who will love you and you'll look back and wonder what you were thinking. I suggest you take a clean break from him and trust me being friends with your ex will only hurt you more. As you will be hanging onto that little bit of hope that maybe you to can still be together.
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