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*AMINA
writes:Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 year and I have noticed that he doesn't appreciate me in anyway, he places his friends before me always, the worst thing is that he puts me down in public, but he always maintains that he is joking, but I no he's not. He keeps saying that I am being over emotional about everything. He is my first boyfriend and I have fallen for him bad. do you think I should stay with him or should I leave?? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): LEAVE. or ignore him- or step back and quit chasing and caring etc.. once he notices these behaviors of you- he will consider you disposalbe- once you start seeing yourself as someone worth time and commitment and care- and be independent- turn the tables on him- dont give him ANY attention- start going out on your own, do things for yourself not for him etc.. and he will start to wonder what happen and what he did wrong.. dont chase- turn a 360 and maybe he will chase you- otherwise just leave.. hes not worth your time..
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (18 February 2007):
 He's seriously bad for your self esteem and once that's destroyed, its a long road to fix it again. Sit him down and tell him seriously that you wont tolerate that kinda crap whether its a joke or not. If he still thinks you're being over emotional, then you know what to do
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