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writes: We just had a terrible fight a few days ago because he was talking to girls on the net and he was really sorry so I forgave him, but tonight he pushed me around onto walls and I thought my nose had broken (it hadn't but it hurts real bad) and then he pushed me onto the ground. I admit that I yelled at him first, but he could have just yelled back, right? He was pretty brutal with the pushing around and stuff, just because I was not strong enough to do the same to him. Should I leave him or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): I think you should dump him, no real man would ever push a woman around, He pushed you when you yelled at him becasue he is scared of you to leave him. But you should probably dump him, you dont want to be around a abusive boyfreind. I hope this helps
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Do you really need to ask? LEAVE HIM... PERIOD! If you don't then the next time you might not be so lucky!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): This guy is abusive and dangerous, his physical strength is being forced on you, if this escalates, you could end up in the hospital or worse, dead.
You may have anger issues as well if you are always yelling and fighting with your boyfriends, why would you chose to have a relationship full of fighting and yelling? You may want to seek some help yourself through anger management counseling or with a good therapist, check with your family doctor for a referal, next time walk away before things escalate to screaming and shouting, and pushing, etc....but this guy is definately bad news!
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reader, Farris +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Yes, you should leave him, no question.
There are some things that you could give a man a second chance to redeem themselves for, but physical abuse is not one of them.
Get out as soon as you can, you have every right to, and he can not make you feel bad for it. You are just as valid a person as he is, whether or not he is stronger than you; No one deserves to be pushed around or hurt, let alone from their partner.
Good luck, and best wishes.
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