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writes:Hello. I have a question about the relationship with my friend. I have liked him for over a year now. He's liked me in the past, but he might have moved on. He's not willing to date me, however. Or anyone for that matter. Afraid of commitment maybe? I've tried to just move on, but i just can't seem to do it. So, i want to know what i should do. Should i tell him how i feel, even though nothing will come from it? Or should i just try and move on? Thanks for the help!
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reader, scrazy +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Go ahead and tell him. You'll never know what he's really thinking unless you do!
What have you got to lose?
If you don't ask, you just going to be stuck with a bunch of "what if's" and keep wondering. If he doesn't return your feelings so what? You're young, at least you'll have closure and you can move on to someone else!
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reader, lovehearts  +, writes (15 July 2008):
You will never know what he really thinks if you don't tell him.
What have you got to lose?
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reader, Kissies4ubaby +, writes (15 July 2008):
 TELL HIM TELL HIM!!!! seriously tell him you will have little to lose and everything to gain. life is too short to dwell on a feeling and not do anything about it. If he doesnt return your feelings then you at least have closure to move on. Good luck!!!
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reader, Uncle Sneaker +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Is there anything to lose by telling him? What's the worst that's going to happen?
If you don't take the chance then you'll never know for sure how he feels.
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