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He pays attention to a girl who is gay but ignores me...what's going on?

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Question - (28 June 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi i wonder if you can help me i really like this guy, and he said he liked me too. Both of us are really shy so nothing happended, then later that night he started to flirt with a lass infront of me and then the next week out he runs past me to put his arm around the same lass he only known for a day, th weird thing is my mate says the lass is gay and she never gives the lad i like any attention so wats going on does he like this new girl now becaue i dont know what to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006):

Well he's probably aware that she is gay, maybe he finds her a challenge becuase she doesn't want him. I'd just ignore the situation because if she is gay then they're never going to be anything more than friends. Maybe he is trying to make you jealous for whatever reason. I would be inclined to behave in an aloof, cool manner and behave as though it didn't bother you. Maybe he may start chasing you, but if he doesn't then move on.You have told him how you feel so really the ball is in his court.

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