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Hey well my name is Carolina! I want to be a psychiatrist so i think this would be a pretty good step in trying to give people the right advice. I learned that in life we all make mistakes but we should never regret them. Regreting somthing is the worst thing you could do becuase what you did can never be changed around, you already did it so no point in lingering and being so upset about it if it has already been done. Me. personally, i have never regretted anything in my life but i have learned. So whatever it is that you need to talk about talk to me. No matter what i wont judge i will only try to help!

Could my pool-jumping have broke my hymen??

Q.   While I was on holidays last month i did a lot of jumping into the pool and afterwards there was blood on my bikini end .I thought it was my period but that was the only blood there was. I'm a virgin so could I have broke my hyman?...

A.   22 August 2008: yea its possible but that can even happen when your riding a bike so dont worry abou that. Just dont think that now it broke your not a virgin so theres no point in waiting cus that is totally diffrent. You should still consider yourself a virgin ... (read in full...)

I have an incontinence problem when I laugh too hard. Any suggestions?

Q.   erm hi there. okay this is guna sound random. but like i dont know if its a problem or whatever but... everytime i laugh (Propa giggly laugh) or something happens thats sooo funny i basically wee myself. i cant stop it but its like every time! and ...

A.   22 August 2008: Well i think that you should go to the doctor and tell him about this problem, somtimes it could be somthing wrong with your bladder or somthing. Until then you should maybe put a patch of paper towel in your underwear so that when you leak it ... (read in full...)

Can I succeed in life even if I don't totally complete school?

Q.   iM A graduating at the end of the year and most likly wont get all my senoir point on my certificate. Im stressing so much that i will never be anything or wont get anywhere. Has anyone else failed grade twelve but still become something great? I am ...

A.   22 August 2008: Well why are you going to fail senior year? I believe that you should try your hardest to pass your senior year and grauduating and concentrate in doing so. But if you were not to graduate from grade 12 there are other things you can do even though ... (read in full...)

I want a divorce but my husband depends on me for so much and really loves me. He has also worked on the relationship after I had an affair. How do I go about it without destroying him?

Q.   I am married for 7 years, I had an affair 1.5 yrs ago H found out and we worked on our marriage. In the last few months I have found myself wanting a divorce, I ponder and think of why. I dont come up with any answers. My H loves me very much, ...

A.   22 August 2008: Well your destroyig yourself. You can not froce yourself to be with someone who you do not truly love. Yes he loves you and might be so very hurt for you leaving but its no healthy for neither of you to be with each other because you do not love him ... (read in full...)

I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we've never been in love, but I care about him. I've recently started to like someone else. What do I do?

Q.   hi im 16 an been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. the problem is that we r not inlove an never have been, we just really care for eachother. i know deep down we would want to be in a relationship where we r inlove with that person. anyway i ...

A.   22 August 2008: Thats is not true! You could be going out with someone for however long and still be thinking about someone else you would want to be with, its totally normal! There is a boarderline though. It seems that you do care about your boyfriend but it does ... (read in full...)

Can I have a relationship with my father's step brother?

Q.   hi i know my question is stupid but i can't tell anyone. can i have a relationship with my father's step brother? he's not from our family he's just the son of my grandmother's new husband. we're so attracted to eachother but i don't know.. is he...

A.   22 August 2008: Ok well some people might fing this a little grose but if you are attracted to him then you should do what you feel you want to do. It is very hard when you let somthing pass you and you live your whole life thinking "what if". Plus he is "step" ... (read in full...)

Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?

Q.   Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...

A.   22 August 2008: You should be very happy that you are still a virgin and 18! i am too!! Well there are alot of things that you can do but you need to avoid some things. Try not to be alone with him like at his or your house becuase in his mind he is think "yes we ... (read in full...)

He only wants to spend time with his friends and not with me!

Q.   all my boyfriend wants to do is go out with his friends....he never wants to spend time with me a little while ago my boyfriend thought i cheated on him and he finally gave up and he forgave me for evrything and said sorry for not believing in me ...

A.   22 August 2008: hey. Well why did he suspect that you were cheating on him in the first place? Sometimes when the other always accuses you of cheating and always has that in the back of thier mind is becuase they, theier self, are doing somthing wrong. But if he is ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend cheats! How should I react?

Q.   I don't know how to take this news, but first i'm going to give a little background story. A girl proper fell for my friend about 3 years ago, and he really liked her too but they never got together. Then i started to feel asthough i was real...

A.   22 August 2008: Well of course you are upset about this. But as i can see you still do have strong feelings for her becuase you say that it took so much to actually get her in the first place. Make sure that you are with her for the right reasons though. What do ... (read in full...)

There's no spark with my current guy, but my ex turns me on.

Q.   I have a question. I'm in such a hard spot right now. I been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we should have broken up after the first week. I don't feel attracted to him anymore because he makes me so upset all the time. He is like a f...

A.   21 August 2008: Hey! You should not feel like a jerk at all! First of all you are hurting yourself. You are not happy in this relashonship and you can't kepp on forcing yourself to be with someone you have no feelings for. Sure you might have feelings for him ... (read in full...)

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