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22-25,
*emmie
writes:A few months ago I met this boy in a different state and we hungout and talked for a while and he told our mutual friend that I was really hot and he wished I was older. He's in college and I'm a sophomore in highschool now. (I was a freshmen then) I recently ran into him and he got my moms phone number from our mutual friend and asked if he could take me out sometime. He got my number and we've been texting a little. He only texts me at night though and we respond to each other like ever 12 hours. It's very strange. What do you think is going on?
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reader, Lemmie +, writes (28 October 2015):
Lemmie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTrue, thank you for the help!!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (28 October 2015):
 So as a Sophomore you are 15-16, am I correct? and he is 18+
While you may not feel there is a big age difference here, you two are kind of worlds apart for now, and the fact that he called a 14/15 year old "HOT" I find cringe-worthy. I know, for a young girl that might seem like a great compliment, but to me? that is a guy who is sexualizing a young girl and that.. is creepy. IF he had complimented you with a "she is great to talk to, smart, funny" it would have had a much lower "creep factor" IMHO.
My middle daughter who is 13 experienced catcalls and comments on her "nice ass" (as they put it) from some HS seniors ( she takes several advanced classes at the HS
) and she was pretty upset about it. She is 13! She shouldn't BE sexualized, NEITHER should you at 14/15.
Now he ONLY contacts you at night, which means he is hoping you will be SO impressed that this college guy is texting you at all, that he might take you out and well.... you can surely guess the rest. He wants to stay "freshly" on your mind.
He doesn't contact you during the DAY because he is busy with friends, school and probably don't want his PEERS to see that he is trying to "rob the cradle".
Sorry, I'd let this guy go. Someone who is REALLY interested in you, would WANT to get to know you, which means he would call and talk and text in the day time, not like some little "secret" in the evenings.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 October 2015):
 Whats going on is he's testing the waters to see if he can have sex with a young lady (you) that LOOKS like a woman and thinks like a teen....
It's very inappropriate for an adult MAN (and if he's over 18 and in college he's an adult even if he behaves like a child) to be in contact with a young lady still in high school.
what do you text about?
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reader, Lemmie +, writes (28 October 2015):
Lemmie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo there isn't a time difference
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2015): Well, is there a time difference between you two?
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