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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating this guy for 6months who has two kids. He works away most nights and could be away from week to week. We used to see each other everyday because we couldn't bare being apart and now I hardly see him I know it's because of his job and I know that but when he does go home and when he's only back for two to maybe four days he will be with only his kids. I know his kids come first and they are his top priority but he NEVER makes time for me. He's back for two days now and he said he would take them out for the day and then come and see me when they are with their mother but he hasn't and he said he would see me tomorrow but then told me he's doing an extra job for his friend and then with his kids so I can't see him. I dont know if what I feel is wrong but I can't help it I haven't seen him all week and I now wont see him all of next week because he's away on business and when he comes back he'll be with his kids so I wont see him then either. I feel like I'm not important and it's like he doesn't want to see me and when he says he's with the kids I know he is because I can hear them. I do get put out because he's either with them or working NEVER with me anymore and when I talk to him about it he says he tries to fit me in and makes me feel like an appointment and if he can squeeze me in for an hour he will and he always says how nothing will ever come between him and his kids which is correct and I would never try to do that but I would like to see him for an hr a week I don't think thats too much to ask. He always think I'm jealous of the attention he give them and in a way I know it sounds terrible and I am so ashamed of it but I think I am. I've known him for 10 years and love him very much and he says he loves me but I find it hard to believe. I don't know what to do anymore. When I'm with him he makes me feel like a princess and that I'm the only one for him and makes me feel special but when I'm not with him I'm upset because it will be weeks before I see him again. Please help me! x
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