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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've had a huge crush on this guy all year. He would stare at me, but then look away really fast when I saw him. He could never speak to me and the few times that he did he looked at the ground or the wall. His friends even the ones I don’t know started acting weird around me. If I walked by them they would tell him and he would look at me and turn away really fast. If I was with his group of friends he would stay off to the side and wait until I left. He would do some other similar things. I never told anyone that I liked him so he didn’t know. I took these as signs that he liked me. I'm really shy and I was even worse around him. I kept hoping that one day he would ask me out. Every day in class I thought it would be the day. I tried to bring myself to say something, but I couldn’t. Then on the last day of school he never said anything. I felt like crying. I couldn't even look at him in the halls. Now I can't stop thinking about him and to make it worse it seems every time I watch TV or do something there is a guy with the same name. I've had crushes on guys and the school year ended with nothing happening and I never felt like this. Obviously he didn't like me or I think he would have done something so I don’t know why I let it bother me. Why do I feel like this? How do I stop feeling like this?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 hun that's the thing you never know because you guys didn't confront it you never really knew whether or not he felt the same.
the signs are there so maybe he was shy and maybe he wasn't sure whether you liked him.
he could of been thinking the same things as you but you both didn't address it.
try finding him on facebook and talk to him again find out about high school maybe he did feel the same and hang out with him and stuff.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I think its because you really wanted this guy to ask you out which obviously never happened and its crushed your dreams! You will get over it eventually as he never even spoke to you. I think he did like you also and he was just shy like you! give it time and you will get over it also if you meet this guy again ask him out!
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