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writes:Hi, Ive been going out with b/f for over a year. We met on holiday and after almost a year of a long distance relationship, he moved to where I live to be with me. But recently I feel like I want to split with him, but I cant because hes moved here to be with me and doesnt really know anyone else. I cant help feel like our relationship has run its course. Lately I keep obsessing over other men, and Im sure if the oppotunity arose I would cheat (I have never cheated in my life!). I feel like my minds moving into being single again, but obviously Im not and Im just waiting for that excuse to finish things. I dont know what to do, I feel very confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all the advice I got on this question! I did end things between us. It was pretty ugly, but I had got to the point where I was miserable. You guys made me realise I was doing the right thing. Thank u!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 It sounds like this relationship has finished. It's too bad, and it's nice that you feel bad and all - but I think it's time to let him know how you feel. Cheating will feel even worse than a nice, civil breakup. Like "KELLYMARIE" said, your boyfriend may get angry, may get upset... but you've gotta know that it'll be better for him in the end.
Be nice about it. Be sweet.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, KELLYMARiE08 +, writes (15 December 2006):
 well theirs nothing you can really do to change your feelings towards him. if the sparks are gone between you guys then you need to put yourself before him if your unhappy in the relationship. talk to him about things. and tell him things arent the same as they used to be. he may get mad or upset at first. but at the end of the day your unhappy & you shouldent be with someone just to make them happy.
well i hope i helped you a little.
and good luck with things.
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