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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey all!i have a problem..i am in love with this guy who i am pretty sure is in love with me..now we live in separate countries but know each other since 2 yrs and have been in touch everyday..he msgs,texts,emails me everyday..tells me everything about his life...except ..he wont call me..when i asked him about this..he said he cant express himself as well when he is talking to me...when we did used to talk..after a month or so..he would say things i wouldnt understand...i dunno whether to believe him or not..what do guys suggest?does this pose as a problem?thx for taking out time to read this
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Well alot of men hate the phone, personally if i can keep a convo under a min, its a win.
But talking to a GF is different and for teenage boys more difficult, moreeeeee so if your shy. Some people stutter cant speak, speak gibberish when confronted with the voice of the female they like. If you really want to talk, which you should take the lead in the convo, lead it he should be fine with your help and bare with him if hes nervous
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni do call him..called him yday in fact..he didnt pick up the phone and later at night wen we were chatting,he said he cnt xpress himself properly on the phone..
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Seriously, a lot of guys are just not that good on the telephone and avoid initiating phone calls if they can. Way back in the days before e.mail and txt there were times when I would walk to the station, take a train for 1/2 an hour, walk to her house all to slip a letter under her door rather than pick up the phone.Having said that though, when she called me and took the lead in the conversation, I would be delighted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): I totally agree with Jamer70.I only see you say he emails and texts you everyday. If he is initiating that much conversation but just not the call, instead of suspecting him, you should really think for yourself why.Call him. Tell him you would be happy receiving his call. It is ok even he called rarely, shows your understanding that the charges are expansive.He taking all the steps. Why not you if you can?
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (1 August 2008):
Well it could be a couple of things
1. Calling different countries is expensive espacially for a teen
2. Some people get nervous speaking, as when you email/message you have the backspace key to erase any mistake and have all the time to articulate the perfect reponse
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1. call him
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