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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks, it is a long distance thing and so quite hard to judge what is going on. When we first met he was texting me everyday around 5 times a day, he made a big effort on the first date and would text to say how much he likes me and looking forward to seeingme again. He has slowly gone quiet on me and only contacts me about 3 times a week. I decide that it is over but then he calls me. He came to visit me in my home town which was lovely but i made the mistake of getitng hammered the night before and was a bit of a wreck for the whole weekend. When i said to him i did not think he was going to come as he had gone quiet he said that that was never his intention and that he likes me and not to think otherwise. I also asked him to be honest and tell me if he does not like me which he said he would do. I did not hear much from him last week but then he calls me on saturday. I do not know whether he has gone off me or assumes that he does not have to make a effort anymore and only contacts me when he can be bothered. He makes me feel like i am not worth his attention....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): he only contacts you 3 times a week?....I dont see how that is a problem. if he stops contacting you all together then you have a problem.If he calls and texts you..then he likes you..if he does not call or text you at all,then his not in to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): You have a confidence problem. Why ask him if he likes you - also asking to tell you if he doesn't. It makes you sound as if you are unsure within yourself. Think to yourself you ARE worth it, and if he doesn't call then its his loss. Get on with life, don't like this guy make you feel inadequate. Confidence is an attractive quality, being needy is not.
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