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writes: My fiance keeps saying he wants me to be like how I was the other day which was I cooked for him and we got along really well. I tried to tell him that it takes two to make a relationship work and that it's not all up to me. I said that the reason I was so nice is because he was nice to me, which made me want to be nice. He got quiet and I could tell he didn't want to talk to me on the phone anymore because he said that I shouldn't make a big deal about little things. (I got kind of upset that he wrote baby on some girl's myspace page). I pointed out that he makes deals about little things too (such as me not doing his laundry the way he wants it and not cooking fries the right way and getting mad that I don't want to drink and smoke with him). I just feel like he blames everything on me. He makes me feel like I am the one either holding the relationship together or dooming it to fail. Is he impossible to live with, is he purposely pushing me away? I feel like he has unrealistic expectations of me.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Why would you still want to be with him then babe?
Sounds like he wants a mother figure not a girlfriend, you are right it does take two to make a relationship work and if he is not willing to put the effort in then he is not worth it.
Take care.xx.
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