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writes:life is going smooth.married for two n half years.actually the problem is ...my possesiveness,may be overpossesiveness,for my husband whom i love like fish cant live without water i cant without him..its been three yrs that v r together ...i dont like anything n dont enjoy anything if he is not around.i cant tolerate when i see him happy with his mother n sisters...n whenever there is a fight,its always me who say sorry n patchup because i cant stay away from him..but he doesnot feel the same.i dont have any friends.i dont like when i see he loves his family n his mother n sisters love him...i feel jealous bec he is mine.what is all this that i dont have peace of mind....
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reader, PreciousNY  +, writes (18 May 2008):
I understand how you feel. I was the same way once, and still am to a certain extent. I have also developed an attachment to my husband and cannot ever find the courage to go out without him. He is like the air.....I can't live without air. Just remember this, he chose you and married you! I don't know if he knows about this problem, but it's best he doesn't. You will eventually drive him away. It isn't a bad idea for you to seek counseling. They will be able to help you overcome this and you will feel so much better and happier. Life is too short and this is not something that's worth any energy. He married you and he loves you!!
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reader, rcn +, writes (18 May 2008):
 It's a disorder which you need to seek psychiatric help. Just these symptoms you explain, symbolize attachment disorder. You attach yourself to your husband to an abnormal level. It can be treated, but you'll have to set up a plan with a doctor in doing so.
It could also be that you have an abnormal or broken relationship with relatives, which cause jealousy because of not having the same level of relationship. Somewhat of a hidden desire.
I hope this helps. Take care.
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