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He likes me, he likes me not, she likes him she likes him not

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Question - (2 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

We're not really friends, more like acquaintances. We KINDA acted like a couple (no intimate things though) and I really thought that he liked me. But then we fell out and he got himself a girlfriend.

One that has no feelings for him whatsoever.

Anyhow, I told him that I liked (LIKED) him and he didn't react, but the next day, told my friend that he did like me. A few weeks after that, I told him that I STILL liked him and asked him if we could be friends.

He said yes and looked deliriously happy (blushing a bit, almost jumping, biggest smile ever) and he put his arms around me and said yes, he would because he loved me.

But then, a week after that, he told me that he didn't like me.

I was pretty much depressed. But then he keeps on staring/glancing (even before all these confessions happened). But he doesn't talk to me anymore.

But then he got jealous/annoyed/angry when a rumor about me liking/loving a guy came up. And when I denied it and said I only liked one person, he looked really curious and disappointed.

And his gf isn't really treating him that well either. He told her that he missed her and she didn't say anything. He asked her how her day went and he told him, not kindly, to shut up.

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A female reader, fabulousone United States +, writes (2 June 2009):

Forget about this guy.

He wants an emotional relationship with you because his current girl isn't giving him emotional support. He doesn't want the physical relationship with you because clearly his girl is giving him the sex.

Stop being friends with him--and find someone single and who isn't confused in the brain.

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