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writes:I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 34. When I met him he told me he was 26. 7 months in to our relationship I found out the truth, we stayed together and now have been together for 15 months. I'm 23 weeks pregnant, we plan on getting married. But I don't trust him. I'm constantly wondering if there's something going on that I don't know about. How can I get through this and trust him again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): I can't believe what the previous anonymous poster has said! The girl was asking for a helpful advice and you slapped her down like that! Shame on you!
Sweetey, like cd206 said, talk to the guy and give him a chance to explain his reasons. It is is quit possible that, despite the age difference, he loved you and was afraid to lose you so much that he just couldn't bring himself tell you his real age. Did he tell you his age before you got pregnant? Is he serious about getting married? This could show that he truly cares about you and loves you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): never trust anyone who lies to you just to get into your pants
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reader, cd206  +, writes (5 March 2007):
 I would ask him what his reasons for lying to you were. I'd put money on the fact that he thought you'd reject him if he revealed his true age. Perhaps if he tells you his reason you won't feel so cheated by his lies because it'll help you understand the reasons behind them. Now that you're having a baby you need to put it first and try really hard to make things work with this guy for its sake.
CD
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