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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey i am a virgin.. One of my friends wants to have sex with me. He loves another girl, but he knows that i love him. He says clearly to me that he can have just sex with me, no attachment. As i love him since 3 years, i am also tempted to have sex with him.Please give me a right advice to cope up with this situation. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): Having sex with you will not make him have any stronger feelings for you than he has right now without sex. But it will probably caused YOU to have stronger feelings for him. This is not a good situation at all. Men and women's brains do not react to sex the same way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): please don't do it. what if you do it but don't end up with him? you'll end up hurting yourself and your future husband. it really isnt a nice thought picturing the person you love having sex with someone else. you've got so much to lose and too little to gain. it's not worth it!
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (5 January 2009):
 If he is currently involved with someone else I would not have sex with him. I can understand the idea of having him as your first is nice, but it can end up oh so messy. Not for him, but for you. He doesn't love you back.
Find yourself a man, who isn't attached and get to know him well.
There really is no hurry.
Out of curiosity:
Isn't it a big no-no for girls to have sex before marriage in India?
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