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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out a little while and he seemed happy enough, a few days ago he suddenly said he was not longer happy, so we decided to meet up and talk about it, we then decided it was in our best interest to take it slowly, and that our main issue was lack of communication, and that was that. I then sent him a message asking if he was feeling better and he just said he needed time to think and that he still wants to see me, I then wanted to know where this came from and it's getting to a stage where i just want him to make a single decision of what he wants, he keeps saying he wants to be with me but then he gives an impression that he wishes we had never met me. The most difficult part is he has always felt like this but i make him happy but i don't is just so confusing. Finally he as chosen to do this right in the middle of my final few weeks of my art foundation which i need to pass to go to university and its all just stressing me out and i am losing interest in my work, i just don't know what to do or think? and whether I should just end it? even if i don't want too, thought he says i make him happy. What do i do?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 He wants space? Fine. That will be best for you, anyways. Just take a break from him until this part of university is over. Redirect all that emotional energy into your school work and do ridiculously well. You will prove something to yourself, you will be accomplished and you'll have done it independently - despite the drama you have on the side.
In that time, maybe he'll have come to a decision. But, if he's not knocking down your door by the time exams are over, consider yourself moved on and be on your way. Good luck, sweetness and ROCK YOUR FINALS!
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