A
female
age
30-35,
*ylblondieex0o
writes:so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. i love him, i really do. when i say that its not a lie. but he is so much more into it than i am. he talks about us being together after college (im gonna be a junior in hs and hes gonna be a senior in hs) but those arent the intentions i had at all. im not looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, but apparently he sees me as that. hes also too much of a cheesy nice guy. like he CONSTANTLY gets the door and tries to be my knight in shining armor, often at his expense. and im not a high matinence damsel in distress at all, i feel like he doesnt give me room to breathe.as of tonight, we are taking a break. i told him all of this .. im thinking of totally breaking up. but hes really nice so i dont have the heart to. i feel that if we do break up ill REALLY regret it, but if we dont its gonna be the same (and he admits that being an overprotective person is just part of his personality)i dont know what to do. help?
View related questions:
a break, his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 July 2007):
 It's too bad you met this guy in the beginning of your life, he sounds like a great guy to settle down with. However since you really aren't ready to do that just yet, I think you will either need to talk to him and see if he will be willing to backoff a bit or break up. If you do decide to break up be very gentle because we don't want to spoil it for the next girl by breaking his heart.
|
