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writes:Im not sure what to do here The guy, im kinda seeing has stopped talking to me hasnt texted me since sunday night, and its been bugging me Ive texted him 3 times and rang him twice and no reply to both I now i havent done anything wrong here. but know i really want to txt him or ring him but also think why should i when he hasnt bothered with me but i cant stop thinking about him if maybe i have done something and dont know about it What should i do ???
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Well now. Today is Tuesday afternoon, so the last time you heard from him was Sunday evening. Which basically means it's been barely a day and a half since his last communication.
Have you thought that he might be busy? Have a lot on his plate with work, study, etc.? Everyone needs some space and time apart from their bf or gf, no matter how close they are and how much they care about one another.
You're running the risk of overkill if you've already phoned him twice and sent three texts, you know?!
Let me ask you: do you have any reason to think you might have done something to upset him?
Because if you have, then trying to get in touch may indicate to him that you regret whatever it was - IF in fact you DID do something to offend him, and are not just imagining/worrying that you might have, that is.
If, on the other hand, you're pretty sure you have not done anything out of line, then the best thing you can do now is to wait and see if he calls or texts you. I strongly recommend that you wait until, say, this time next week, and then if you have heard nothing, try phoning him and see if he answers. In the meantime, do try not to worry or be so anxious! See if you can get involved in other activities you like and enjoy and try to take your mind off him.
There really isn't much more you can do at this point.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Let it go.
You are "kinda" seeing him, he isnt your boyfreind.
You already texted back and rang him. No response means no interest.
Chances are you did not DO anything wrong dear, it is just not a lovematch.
Put the phone down, go take a walk, and resolve yourself to live a happy life not waiting by the phone!
Best Wishes.
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